C'mon guys, this thread is for Maria and as far as I can tell..she is choosing to work on this M! This is a divorceBUSTING forum, not a hey-you-should-dump-your-lousy-H forum. So, we respect that choice, right?
It IS for divorcebusting. It is ALSO a place for friends to help friends...to avoid fostering denial when it exists....to help someone recognize unhealthy situations....to point out issues with codependency...and to support others here when they DO choose to end a relationship OR recognize when someone is married to a toxic spouse.
I am NOT here to tell Maria to file or separate or dumpe a 'lousy H'. I also won't blow smoke up her @$$.
Hang tough Maria. I support your choices.
Sagapo. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
