He really is trying so look at that. I know that in my sitch with the long time OW, my H has never given me his passwords and right now if I even get on our joint cell account, he would flip. Your H is really trying and although he is draining because of the depression, he is trying to meet the needs you have when he can. What you need to do is take some time for you so you can rejuvenate. Keep inviting him and encouraging him to get some help for himself, but at least he is being transparent to help you. It may not be romantically loving, but the transparency can at least reassure you.
Enjoy the long weekend, and if H will, have him come along. Have some fun together, if he is able to go.
About the above post, it seems to me that OW are always uglier than the W. I know in my case, my H's OW is short and fat. I am not gorgeous, but I take care of myself better than she does. It is always reassuring to see that the OW is UGLY!
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