You're married to Miss Independent! Doesn't need a husband. Doesn't need an exclusive package. Your wife's a challenge again. Some free thinking, free lovin girl to try and get into bed again. A little like when you first met her. Yet, a little different now; But still, an interest, a challenge, a game...
But, then, so are the millions of other pretty ladies out there your age. and younger. and older. and prettier and of different ethnicities and all of them with less baggage then your old lady.
She wants to find her sexual being, needs to find herself, wants learn how to discern the difference between her spiritual and sexual energy with someone else. Great. So does everyone else. Same rules apply to you then.
Same rules apply to you.
The way I read this thread is your wife has asked for a free pass Open Marriage. Kind of just like the guys around here who have been told, "If you want to have sex get yourself a girlfriend."
Personally, I'd dare to find out just how serious she is about this new life plan of hers. See what kind of reaction she gives you when you start dating someone 10 -15 years younger then her that doesnt require a paycheck to go see. or even better someone spending money partying you up and then is driving you to pick up your car the next morning. Sure alot the better than cyber-sex.
I read that the number one sexual fantasy amongst a group of interviewed women was sex with a stranger. I wouldnt doubt that is true amongst a larger population also. If your life is affected by this sexual desire of females, then it is your obiligation as a stranger to take advantage of it. I would think your wife is up for the challenge; she placed a big enough challenge before you. Have fun with it.
Originally Posted By: Albert Camus
We stared at each other without blinking, and everything came to a stop there between the sea, the sand, and the sun, and the double silence of the flute and the water. It was then that I realized that you could either shoot or not shoot.
