Aaaaaahhh! The dreams! I hate the dreams. They are frequent, unfortunately. My dreams also involve our being happy and things being normal. They usually center around the bedroom, which also makes me realize just how different things are when I wake up.
My H has friends who are encouraging him, too, I'm afraid. They are part of the well-meaning group who offer a biased shoulder. I'm disgusted that some of them encourage him to do what "makes him happy." Early in the separation, I tried to explain that there is no him--now we're a team. We have a team problem that requires a team solution. He had no response other than he knew he was being selfish but he just wanted to be happy.
Do you think if your H ever chose to apologize you would accept it? Do you really believe it's too little, too late?
