I emailed my attorney yesterday about what to do with the non visit requests. Here is his response:
"It's a win win situation. If he wanted to protest the times, he should have protested them. Write down every time he tries to change the visitation times. If you're available you're available and it's YOUR choice. If you're not, you have a record of him being an [censored]. It will usually come into effect later, because either assholes will try to get you for contempt, or they'll claim that you're keeping them from their kids when in reality, they can't even maintain the amount of custody that is court mandated."
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!