Just prior to the bomb, we had completed the restoration of our home (HUGE PROJECT - 2 1/
--- 2 years), and he didn't really want to live here. We bought it on foreclosure, and he wanted to put 100k into it, and then flip it. Once we started, I fell in love w/it. I pressured him to sell our house, our lake house (we had a hard time getting to it since the kids were getting older, but he LOVED it), and move in.
--- We got hit w/a MAJOR IRS issue, and I mean MAJOR. We're slowly digging out of it now, but I'm sure he was scared to death, and felt like he let us down by not handling this correctly.
--- The year prior to the house restoration and IRS issue, he lost his dad.
--- His family, as a whole, is emotionally unhealthy. He's the most "stable". He has two brothers that he doesn't even speak to, as they had a falling out at some point... he completely wrote them out of his life.
You've given me an idea... I am going to talk to the Naturopath that we go to. (He's not normally into seeing doctor's, but he likes this...) I'll talk to her confidentially, and see what she comes up with. If she suggests something else to take, I'll slip it in as an afterthought on our "plan". stress release, etc... that kind of thing.
Last edited by mindfull; 02/09/1002:26 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
