OMG, so true Puppy,
After my "no one would blame me for Ding you" speech to hubby.
He had a sudden turnaround.

Not saying it will work for all..

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)