Forward, probably I do know that its not raining hearts and flowers over there, but what I actually meant was I hope I live long enough to see one of them cheat on the other, not as I want ex back but Id love to see some karma in that cabin, and let them go through what I had to go through, especially ex. and I know this doesnt sound very nice of me but that is my wish and I do honestly pray that it will happen, I just want to see them split up, x
Mandy, I sure can't blame you for feeling that way, personally, I am not a big believer in "karma" I haven't seen it go the other very often in my life. Maybe it works for other people, but this is something I haven't seen. Anyway, I think you would be better served moving forward and making your life better as opposed to thinking about him getting his.
THis is just my take on what you said ML I dont think our xh would react the same as we did, if their wives cheated..they probably would retaliate by cheating also and just create more of the same..mess peace
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maybe so peacetoday, maybe we will never get to see it happen, we can only hope that what goes around comes around. more mess more heartache just thankful I wont be part of it next time around
Just a quick update for those of you who are interested. ex continues on his path, he called me on saturday to repeat a text he had sent on friday sounded very down and fed up. ex is also seeing more and wanting to see more of son, albeit he is now trying to push son towards wifey for what son calls a fake friendship, up to now son very against that, if dad loses him again it is his own doing. ex picked son up last night to take him for tea asked to speak to me when he took him and also when he dropped him off, and for some unknown reason ex keeps asking me if Im going out, got to admit I find that funny because what as it got to do with ex whether I go out or not, it is even stranger that he keeps asking me this as quite a few times he as had son before and after xmas when he as contacted me either by text or phone I have been out enjoying myself in bars, wonder if hes noticed I have a life after all and have moved on in that area that I dont sit around moping for him, one may never know, curiosity killed the cat
Braveheart, I thank you for your reply, I also re-assure you that I do keep that aspect of my life to my self, that is for me to know and him to find out, afterall he didnt want to be a part of it, tough luck on his side I say x
well I am totally shocked and confused but also a little suspicious, ex has not sent a dime our way since he walked out the door, he as moaned constantly whenever he as paid out for anything for his son, he as blown all his inheritance on the wifey,. ex took son shopping last week and spent well over four times the amount he spent on him at xmas, then today son needed school shoes and rugby boots, yes thats my boy doesnt do things by halves he blows two pair of shoes up at the same time, ex takes son shopping again and I told him before they left that if he managed to get him a pair of each I didnt mind going halves with him, so on their return ex phoned me and told me how much it had cost, I said ok fine I will send the money out to you when you come back for son later on this evening, I have just sent my half out to him and lo and behold he as sent it back in and says it doesnt matter he will stand the cost of both pairs. NOW FOLKS THAT IN MY EYES IS A TURN UP FOR THE BOOKS, or am I just waiting for some scheme to erupt,mmmmm one wonders why all the nicey niceyness all of a sudden. I guess because of what ex has done in the past I really have no trust in this guy anymore, although I did thank him and tell him I dont mind paying my share, so I thankyou ex for being a little like your old self today x
Wonders never cease. I'm glad to see that he is spending time w/your son and actually took him shopping. It's about time. Now, let's hope and pray that he does something for his aunt. I'm wondering if all of the withdrawal was the deep depression hitting him. I'm curious to see what he does next.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
