"controlling?"== I guess he means the court is, and that's true b/c it's the law....please...

I liked the suggestion by donna and spelling it out again and not letting him bash you for HIS own UNadult behavior....

The man is a baby. He can't make an appointment and the pathetic requests thru you, to show her HIS love, is a sad joke...I think the 15 min visits won't happen when she's older. Too weird...She'll note it and comment and he won't do it anymore. He'll make more time for her then b/c the others will have moved on. OR not...

how about no more "let's see if he comes this time" waste of your brain cells?....if he's late GO somewhere and enforce the boundary.

OMG when will he get it? He won't. You have to do this.
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change