Hey Sunny, I am here, yes! Waiting for your view on things...
June, funny you make a point about the passwords. Something I didnt mention yesterday was that although I did thank him for taking care of the kids, I also had sent him previously an email saying I need his passwords, that he had time to take care loose ends and I dont understand why he wouldnt give it to me. I said I couldnt believe he didnt understand how that was important to me.
I found a reply this morning. That he had enough with this issue and that he cant believe his credibility is dependendt on the password. That he never asked about mine or tried to get them. And he ends it with his password. I should have figured it out, very easy password btw... It is frustrating to see he doesnt "get it" but hey, what can I say, it isnt easy...
June, if I start with "what about MY needs" we are doomed. Unfortunately I am better equipped to make decisions that would benefit our relationship than he is. I often get into the mood you describe but to be honest, I dont like that mood.
Regarding his schedule: it is his work schedule, he makes sure I know wher ehe is, calls me from his office at various times of the day and has given me the direct line I didnt know existed (he says I did) so I can "check up" on him any hour of the day.
Timeline? End of Feb 2011. That is the end. A year from now. Dont ask me why, that's it. I'll be 40 on March 3rd 2011. K
