Just a quick update for those of you who are interested. ex continues on his path, he called me on saturday to repeat a text he had sent on friday sounded very down and fed up. ex is also seeing more and wanting to see more of son, albeit he is now trying to push son towards wifey for what son calls a fake friendship, up to now son very against that, if dad loses him again it is his own doing. ex picked son up last night to take him for tea asked to speak to me when he took him and also when he dropped him off, and for some unknown reason ex keeps asking me if Im going out, got to admit I find that funny because what as it got to do with ex whether I go out or not, it is even stranger that he keeps asking me this as quite a few times he as had son before and after xmas when he as contacted me either by text or phone I have been out enjoying myself in bars, wonder if hes noticed I have a life after all and have moved on in that area that I dont sit around moping for him, one may never know, curiosity killed the cat