Originally Posted By: TrentC
forgiving someone means you are giving up the right to seek retribution for the harm they did to you. It means that you are choosing to accept that imbalance in your life.


See flowmom.... this is exactly what I was talking about earlier. It takes a look from the outside to present the answer. Or better yet, an answer that one can truly understand.

Trent.... this does it for me. I can "chose to accept that imbalance in my life" and I will. I am strong enough to do so.

I will call W in the morning ...

Thanks flow, Lotus and Thank you Trent


Last edited by patpat; 02/09/10 07:10 AM.
Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"