Sent the email. She got mad and tried to argue with me and I told her I wasn't going to fight but she did.
I hung up and she called back. I reiterated what I said in the letter, that she doesn't have to give me any money or even explain. I asked and she said no.
It went well after that. Disagreements, but we handled them maturely and without getting upset.
She filled me in on D13, who apparently has a major attitude problem now and has been ordered by the school C to see an IC. I just said that this was exactly the sort of stuff I should know about and that I would like to talk to her. That suggestion was dismissed out of hand as was my suggestion to talk to the school C.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)