No need to apologize . There have been quite a few nice chats about parenting stuff and there has been some connectedness around that. But H is being frank about his intention to date and evasive about his activities...I'm finding that to be a big trigger for my grief.
Sorry, but I would have to find out- some way, some how. It is a big factor in everything. If he is eager to date. How does that change things for you?
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
. There have been quite a few nice chats about parenting stuff and there has been some connectedness around that. But H is being frank about his intention to date and evasive about his activities...I'm finding that to be a big trigger for my grief. 
