Do you know how controlling this sounds in a way?

YOu don't respect her b/c you are behaving arrogantly. Love her in a "godly" way. Do not try to "improve her"

You are clueless as to women- all women are very emotional- usually only the husband see how emotional they are b/c they share their most intiamte feels with tier hubby.

Maybe she fights unfairly- hopefully she will learn new ways...

Has she seen a doctor about her weight? Maybe she has hyperthyroidism...


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)