Hi Curveball, I have been reading yor story and can relate so much of what your are saying. Separations are difficult but when a pregnanacy is involved, it is terribly, terribly complicated. If you can support her while she is pregnant, no matter what happens in the future, then do so. It does not matter what others think, especially family. You are not to blame for the sitch. Just be there for her for now as it is important for the health of the baby.
