(((avermont))) the house is so symbolic for you. I guess I hope that you see the opportunity that you have. You can start a new life with almost no residue from your M. As someone who will be spending the next 15 years coparenting dependent children with my H (longer than our M), I envy your freedom. See that beautiful clean slate? You can write your name on it and write your story. A lot of my story is already written...and I don't love that story, even if I manage to get over losing H one day.

The skiing sounds great. So cool! grin

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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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