Trent, I'm another follower but don't post to you.
I agree with the others. You wanted it to work while your W continued to lie to you. Personally I think lying about her condition, or lack thereof, is heinous and I'm not sure how you could want a future with someone who would hurt you so deliberately. Pack her things, leave them outside, then focus on taking care of you.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g