im not one to ask about that. I've been trying to get away from h emotionally, probably bcuz i'm pregnant and have this horrible moral of being with the father of the children.

it's ok to have tough days know that you will have them and also know that tomorrow can be better.

have you set any goals?

I'm there with you not being able to do 180's, i'm far to angry, disappointed ANGRY hurt to do anything. I dug my heels in or think i have in january.

there may come a point in time where you can ask him the things you want to know or he may come out with it. Not now, the fog is upon your h.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline