hey there. and NO, his comments weren't necessary. but many times we say things because we are frustrated or mad and the people closest to us are the easiest ones to lash out on.
SOOO, before your year of pleading, what would you have done when he said those rude comments?
then, during your year of DBing, what would you have done??
Now, what can you do different? would doing this be different?
H "this isn't how you make it, why do you always change it?!?!"
M "wow, your right! I better throw this out, it tastes terrible!!" while grabbing his plate to toss it down the sink.
now, I'm not saying you should use that one, because you just slaved for 4 hours and throwing it away would be a waste! but my thought is to try to give you some ideas, some crazy ideas that you've thought of, but never have done.
I do agree that you need to start doing something different. and I'm not sure that this half dark thing is it. Do you feel that he has gotten better or worse in the last month?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
