So sorry to see this luvless! I called my H's OW and he found out and left. It has been over a month since he left. I will say that I have been calmer and am not walking on eggshells in my own home anymore, even when he is here visiting! Hang in there!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing