[quote=Kalni]I think you H has his eye on someone and he was testing your reactions... I wouldnt be surprised if he is already in an A with someone (if you said something about that I mssed it, sorry).
Originally Posted By: flowmom
Very possible. Very hard for me to accept.
Sorry, flowmom, I kinda agree w/Kalni on this one. And I know how much it sucks to want to work things out, while H wants to cat around.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
99% of the stories here involve OPs, full blown affairs, emotional affairs, old flames, etc etc.
Maybe that is why I'm currently a little jaded.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
the existence of an OP only affects the timeline of the sitch, IMO, if you play your cards rights meaning letting go completely and moving on.
Originally Posted By: flowmom
I'm trying to come to terms with that. Reading other people's threads is a real eye-opener, that's for use.
It's tough, for sure. My self-esteem has taken a mighty beating over H's A. But now I'm in a place of just moving forward. Maybe it's the end of H & my road, or maybe it's just a fork, and we'll meet up in the future. But right now, I'm walking alone.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
