Hey Flowmom-

Just checking in on you. I'm sorry to hear about the waves of grief--they do suck something awful.

I don't have any advice on the dating question you are dealing with now, but I wanted to let you know I support you whichever way you decide.

Yes, so many of the sitches here are so unbelievably bad--I do sometimes help my own grief and pain by realizing how much WORSE it could be.

I hope your GAL'ing activities helped today.

I tried something new! Waxing my legs! It didn't hurt near as bad as I was afraid it would!

I know leg waxing is no cure for those horrible waves of grief, but at least I could blame the tears on the pain from the waxing!

We're here with you!

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process