Trent,

I haven't followed your thread but I have seen your posts to others in the past and thought I would drop in on you after seeing your FB post.

Absolutely no 2x4's from me either. You were working on your M with the best of intentions, you believed your W when she gave you her medical condition, why wouldn't you? I'm so sorry that she would do something so despicable. The is the one of the worst kinds of manipulations imagineable.

Calm down for a couple of days, pack her things up and sit them in a protected area outside (so she can't claim you are destroying her things) and tell her she is not welcome back in your home as she doesn't see fit to be honest and forthcoming with you. If she tries to lie her way out of it again with crying and claims that the clinic didn't tell you the correct information then I would suggest that you ask for proof, given to you in person by the doctor himself.

She is a seriously disturbed person and needs help.

Be kind to yourself, protect yourself, and most of all, get surrounded by the right people.

Hugs to you Trent!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!