P.S. - Just an FYI - in the midst of our fight yesterday - she firmly stated she intends to date men, and she "highly recommends" that I date as well - to see if there is life and happiness beyond us! Crazy!!!!!!
My wife said something similar too about a month ago, it was the day after I pulled her off some random guy in a bar that she was kissing. She said "if you would just find somebody you would realize....." she never finished the sentence. Another time she suggested that I go out with her 28 year old roommate (who is very attractive I might add).
It is all about them, she really doesn't care whether you are dating someone or not just as long as it aleviates the guilt of what she is doing. Her guilt is massive, it must be to say something like that to you.
Good choice, on not dating, I personally think it would complicate things that are already messed up enough.
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