Originally Posted By: onthemountaintop
[quote=Ruined]Once he gets OW out of his system, he can pick his M back up.


Originally Posted By: onthemountaintop
I think the difference to me is that Ruined is leaving the bad H. In his sitch, she is the one who put the pillow between them and said she wanted space, maybe out.


No, OtMT, I really have no choice in the matter. H. IS having A. H says he wants D. H stopped wearing his ring 10 minutes after starting his A. H seems pretty sure that he can come back 'once he gets OW out of his system and pick M back up'. THAT is why *I* stopped wearing my ring - to silently drive home the point that I am DONE waiting. Saying it to H sounds like this: 'blah, blah, blah'.


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3