She's not going to "fall in love" with you again if this guy is still in the picture. And the fact that she told you she wants to have sex with him THAT is where she is totally disrespecting you.

If she told you that she probably told the guy that. Since she's still in contact with the guy, expose the A to his W. Then let your W deal with what happens. All you're doing is protecting your kids.

Your W will get pissed, etc. But she crossed the line by telling you she wants to have sex with OM.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER