Trying to find it now Robx, it was the "man up" thread.
But as I said I have been a bit of an emotional roller coaster the past few days and I may have taken the point entirely wrong. Trying to find the post now.
And this place is like a darn magnet.
I am about halfway through DR, but need to go back to the start here shortly once I get my head clear of all the other thoughts.

Last edited by Wired; 02/09/10 12:53 AM.

M:40
W:40
D: 21
S: 18
D: 17
Md: 18 years
-1/19/2010 W wants out
-6/03/10 "Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.."