Trying to move on

[Cie la vie]

Then part of me says play it cool. Don't show anything. Let her run her life into the ground. She's broke now. In nine months who knows where she'll be.

Sounds to me like she is speeding down a road that leads to a cliff. And you are right she's going to be hanging out with a crew of over the hill drunk tough guys. Nice choice. Kind of mirrors my W buffonish moves.

All you can do is focus on you and your kids and making all the right grown up moves and do you best to not think about what nonsense she is up to. Don't bother asking her what she is doing with her free time or vacation time as long as it doesn't affect the kids. She might simply enjoy the torment it may cause you, don't give her the satisfaction.

I've have a similiar event staring me down right now. My W is going to your state to meet OM1 for the weekend and lucky for her I have the kids that weekend. She made sure I knew about it by putting it down on our parental calendar "WAW out" Fri-Sun. It wasn't necessary to inform me of what she had scheduled with her free weekend but there it was. I haven't and will not make any mention of it to her.

I'm in, "I could give a eff" mode with what she does. I hope I can maintain that attitude for the foreseeable future.

Play it cool.