I am with PH. I think you are due for a talk with Mr. Mindfull. I don't know how you have kept quiet for so long. I commend you from the bottom of my heart. I would find it extremely hard to do. I don't do subtle, I do forthright and sometimes that is a problem (working on it!!!)
However, it really matters what you think and where you are. You can do whatever you set your mind to do.
Mr. Mind sounds like a little studmuffin from your description of him. How about turning up the heat in the bedroom? You also said he follows you into the shower sometimes...how about that?
I think you have done a stellar job in rebuilding a friendship but you need your H as a lover now. I honestly don't see how you get there without some sort of discussion or something NEW on your part. I could be wrong and I am not in a position to give advice but those are just my thoughts.
Have you ever wondered whether he could have some sort of erectile dysfunction or other problem? Is he under financial stress from his business? Just wondering...
(working on it!!!)
