yes H, what Talia said. Enough about the past you...really you are microscoping yourself, which he is not doing at all. You are spending so much time and energy on him, I have to wonder what your life will be like when you aren't thinking about him all the time. It'll be BETTER, that's what.
If he wanted to be M to you right now and simply pick up where he left off, would you? I hope not, b/c he's self absorbed and...well...snarky, and you are right, he sounds as if he's done NO work on himself.
Who cares why you all broke up now? For one thing, you put him thru all that schooling so how is it that HE was the "doormat"? What?
Regardless, You are not the same woman, so you won't have a repeat of your experience. He will. And he broke your heart. He should be tons more gracious, but he's not. I think you're a bit backsliding in that you are staring at these interactions as if they'll make a huge diff, and they most likely won't. Remember that you won't utter ONE sentence that makes ALL the difference....Really, if you want him to recall you well, or at least as well as possible, then just do your best and leave the rest....you know? j- Take care, you've done well.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
