I'm lucky to have a very challenging C. I'll post the results of that discussion in a bit. Kinda worn out at this point.

Newmama, no advice is bad advice if it gets me thinking in new ways to communicate. I'm trying to find the best way for *me* and part of that is seeking out advice and trying new things. The old ways obviously don't work.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)