(((Gardener)))

The red carnation symbolized the beginning of the relationship...

Choose a different flower/color to symbolize your new beginning now...

She would probably see the red carnation as a last ditch attempt at you trying to prove once again how much she is losing/lost/can't live without etc...

smile

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~