I just realized that I will be home over Valentines day. Great, a no win situation. If I get something, then I will be pushing; if I don't, then I will be insensitive and pulling away.
Since your wife is uninterested in your R/M at this time, it makes more sense [to me] to get her nothing. Again, VD is a holiday one celebrates w/ their partner. Your W isn't your partner at this time. So, nothing to celebrate.
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Do they make an "I would love to love you if you were not being so STUPID" card?
If they did, I'm sure many folks on this board would snap them up!
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was thinking about not wearing my ring when I get off the plane. Overkill or not?
That is your call. Is your W wearing her ring? Not wearing it definitely sends the message to WAS that you aren't sitting around pining. Personally, I took mine off b/c a.) H stopped wearing his in August b.) if my M isn't going to survive, despite my best effort, then I best get used to not wearing it c.) I have no M right now
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
