My kids had their Nintendo DS's this weekend. D7 plays in moderation, but S9 is addicted. I am using it as an incentive for him to get other "to do" items done and I put a limit on the video game play time. It is funny that when he is not allowed to play the DS, he will ask me "Dad, what can I do?".
D7 went into an academy award performance yesterday when I let her brother play the DS after dinner. She was wanting him to play with her instead. Oh well, you cant please them both.
I dont see how you have the energy to be thinking or worrying about the "love" of your H and also being a parent at the same time.
