TTA, You responded perfectly to his text about feelings. Keeping it neutral and pushing him to IC is a great idea. He needs to explore his feelings - he's still kinda looking to you to do that for him. When you can't it breeds doubt. Sounds to me like he has been looking to you to make him happy and now that its clear you can't he doesn't know what to do. He needs to learn to be happy himself... but none of that really matters since he doesn't read this forum...
Just remember - most people project... Usually what they say is wrong with you are the things that are wrong within them! At least that's true for my H...
The best thing you can do is lovingly encourage him to get some help dealing with his feelings... and believe that if you two are meant to be together that path will lead him home. Faith...
You guys (and me too) are doing alot of trying to read his mind. I know it makes you feel better to do that - and its OK on this forum a little bit - just be careful not to do it too much. Believe nothing they say and half of what they do... that doesn't help if you are trying to read minds... be careful or you will drive yourself crazy!!
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