Goals are good, but how are doing on being in the present? Dunno, I'm just getting a gut feeling that you're having trouble just being in the now when you are with your H. When we get the past and the future out of the way, it's just two people meeting one another with fresh, true feelings and actions.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
