Hi, Gardener,
just stopping by and although I didn't read all 99 pages, I read a little from the beginning, middle and present.

Wow have you done a good job taking care of yourself through this crap! I see that you have heeded advice from the good people here on the forum but you are giving out quality advice to others as well!(by posting your "life" and actions as well as going to others' threads!)

What's funny is that soooo many of us (including you) have said on our threads that we felt like we couldn't give much advice to others b/c we didn't know what we're doing.

But now I see that even just 1)offering support or a laugh is helpful and 2)it's always helpful to hear from those on the outside just to consider other options.

Anyway, I'm glad you decided to post on others' threads!

Now what plans do you have to celebrate surviving the legal muck of the D when it's done? Sorry if you told us on page 73 or 84...


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004