Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

ALL - interesting debate going on. First off, I'm not convinced one way or the other on the EA still raging on. Here's why - this late night computer activity has only been 2 of the last 7 nights and it is during last couple days with dog. Second, time of night for OM (remember he was W and 3 kids) would be between 2 and 5:30 AM his time. If OM2 exists, I'm telling you it would be purely some on-line thing. A few weeks ago, I would have convinced EA with OM still going strong, not as sure these days.

Initial thoughts is W would freak and view as controlling/another sign of no trust, but I'll re-read this all later with fresh brain. She will say she just needs space and she is always on the laptop, so it is natural to have computer with her.

I do need to let things settle. We put dog down a couple of hours ago. W did let me hold her a little, not sure if she wanted it or just allowing me to grieve.
Also, this weekend is our family mini-vacation with 2 nights in a condo skiing.

More things to mull over, I appreciate everyone's interest/thoughts/advice.
I have no idea how to get transparency...I have tried before, couldn't get it.