D3 is likely going to be ok...it may just be a 24 hour stomach virus. She threw up three seperate times this morning and got really pale which is why we decided to go to the doctor.

But we're waiting on some lab tests to be sure its isnt anything else with similar symptoms.


At any rate...back to this morning. I was half asleep when I got my ex's text response this morning. As I said she told me she went out last nite with her dad and his g/f to a few places and that along with the fact that she was up at 8AM when she normally isnt shocked me. So I questioned her and she told me she had been up for 3 hours in pain.

While at that point I dont doubt she was being truthful, she knows I get all melty when shes in pain...so she could potentially fake it and get sympathy from me.

She said she was just mad at her sister and she was eating when I messaged her and forgot to respond back. She needed a pain pill but her prescription is out. I told her I was sorry she was in pain and that I accused her of something untrue...and that I let my imagination get the better of me when we lose touch. She said it was ok but to quit blowin up at her for things she didnt do. She said she was exhausted and in pain. (but she still wanted to do taxes today).

So I called her to ask her if she could get her prescription refilled, and if not she had an older prescription for pain pills in the closet I could give her. She couldnt get a refill but wasnt sure if she wanted her old prescript. She asked me to call her back in an hour or so to see how things were and we'd decide when we wer going to get the taxes done.

Then D3's illness came up and we ended up going to the Dr's office with D3. While we were waiting, the ex's neck was really hurting and giving her a headache and so I asked if she wanted me to rub her neck and she said yeah if you want to. I found it surprising that she said yes given her aversion to my touching her over the past couple of weeks.

After we were done there D3 was hungry, as were we...so we went to a place close by where my ex and I used to go often but hadnt been in quite some time. The meal was good, the time spent was pleasant...and there were no uncomfortable moments.

Then we made our way back to her dads house and I dropped her off so she could go to work.

The weather is supposed to get bad again tonight...which could make the roads turn to all ice by the time she gets off work, so I asked her to let me know that she got home ok tonight when she got home. She called me a few minutes ago to sayshe would let me know that she got home ok when shew as done at work, then she went on to tell me how packed the gas station was that she stopped at, and then she said she had to go so she could focus on driving.

While I didnt make things worse, I didnt make things better. I'm gonna spend the rest of the day playing with D3 and reading my codep. book...as I know I made several "rescuing" errors that it talks about at different points today.

Thanks for the prayers about D3.


Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

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