One day at a time....

[courageous wife]

RW-I am feeling for you! How can you not just want to come to his rescue? I am sure it hurts seeing him that way! Wish I knew what to tell you. You have come so far and yes, you do deserve to be valued, wanted and pursued! All I can tell you to do is to keep on doing what you are doing cause it has obviously been working and you have been such an inspiration to us all!

I just found a note that I had written to H while cleaning out some papers, I assume it was around the time that my Dad had passed away and reading it made me sick to my stomach! THAT came from me? I must have been upset with him as it went something like this "I hope that I can count you to keep the house cleaned up while I am gone, it is the least you can do for me" and then "don't drive the hot rod here because it uses too much gas". I have no clue what I was upset about but felt like I was acting like a mother instead of a wife... I am not blaming myself as we both had our faults in the marraige but am wondering how many times I wrote notes like that and how much did I act more like a mother than a wife to him?

I guess I am just thinking that when we try to rescue or solve their problems, we are being more like a mother than a wife??? Just my thoughts...