Hmmm...so does that count for your discussion or is that too sneaky? I mean do you need to know for sure that he is dating? Does he need to know for sure that you might?
I guess it counts. I dunno if I did the right thing being proactive in bringing it up. I guess I felt that it was already on the table indirectly, and the only way for me to deal with it was confront it head-on with him. OTOH, it could appear that I have given my blessing to him dating, and I don't feel good about that.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.