Originally Posted By: newmama
I have a q- what are you expecting/wanting to happen as a result of limiting conversation? What do I expect/want?

  • becoming less available therefore more desirable (esp. for us mothers because our Hs get so much access to us because of parenting)
  • projecting that you have better things to do and doing them (too busy to talk because I'm GALing!)
  • avoiding conflict

Last edited by flowmom; 02/08/10 08:29 PM.

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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