I don't know if that was shocked because I might have seemed like I knew that he was already dating (if he was), or if he wasn't ready to start dating, or if it introduced the idea of me dating.
I think he was shocked because you introduced the idea of YOU dating!
Hmmm...so does that count for your discussion or is that too sneaky? I mean do you need to know for sure that he is dating? Does he need to know for sure that you might?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004