How do I keep things going good when they are and not let things slip back to how they were?
For the time-being (and I wish everyone would try to work at this), try to be more even-keeled and consistent in your demeanor toward her. Maybe it's a full moon or something, but there seem to be SO many "passive-aggressive" interactions described on the boards the last week or so! Especially from the men, as they swing wildly from "melty-man"/purusing behavior to snotty controlling dikks, all in a day's work!
Try to portray "confident, upbeat, lovingly distant." Not available as often, but when you do have convos, be charming and empathetic. Just get in that MIDDLE FLOW.
Does that make any sense? I'm really not expressing it well . . .
