Mindfull, you are sounding like Kara's first post on her latest thread! I read it last night! I think she said something like she was tired of DBing, and was just going to do what she wanted. And I don't remember the latest but her H moved out 10 days, came home and now they are...?
My point is you have reached your point of detaching, methinks!
And yeah...your H sounds like a grump but his critical comments (almost passive aggressive) seem familiar to me...my WH!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004