See, my xH would never do something like that because I actually no longer exist except as a convenient receptacle for his daughter when he has better things to do. At least you're not invisible--in ways, that feels worse than hatred.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
