Geez, already almost a month since our agreement was signed and I am still not divorced. Not sure when it will happen either. No contact with lawyer since then. How long does it take to find out what a pension is worth anyway?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Superbowl today and the Colts are my home team! Can you say< PARTY? Unless they lose but I wont jinkz that!
I was working yesterday and I realized how much I do enjoy my job. I was working away and it was almost 6pm and then I thought, "wow, normally my wife would be getting on my @ss to make dinner by now!" Still miss you wife but Iam going to take this opportunity and make something great from it! Looking forward to my future, finally!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Wife called today(I didnt answer) to tell me that our divorce support group for children is canceled tomorrow night because of a pending snow storm. She said, "just wanted you to know so that you are not out driving around in the storm." I have been driving for almost 20 years, never a snow related accident.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
See, my xH would never do something like that because I actually no longer exist except as a convenient receptacle for his daughter when he has better things to do. At least you're not invisible--in ways, that feels worse than hatred.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Wife called today(I didnt answer) to tell me that our divorce support group for children is canceled tomorrow night because of a pending snow storm. She said, "just wanted you to know so that you are not out driving around in the storm."
So... see what happens sometimes when you finally drop the rope and ignore them?
A: They start thinking about you.
Weird animals these WAS's WAW's aren't they... more proof that counter-intuitive is effective.
I'd say you need to push up that trip to FL for ASAP... then tell her that she needs to look after the kids for the next week. Tell her you're going on a trip and won't be able to see the kids during that time.
EDIT: Sorry HM... meant WAW's above. They're a slightly different alien species to WAH's.
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M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
Yes tragic it t'was Hoosier! Oh soo sad:( But we had some great chili and beer!
Gnosis, yes, getting ignored hardcore does hurt and it is funny how it makes a person want you instead of give up on you. I remember exactly how I was months ago when she did the same thing to me. I am simply doing what was done to me - the golden rule! I have thought about taking that trip asap but I need to pay bills first! Planning on going within a few weeks.
Hoosier, dont feel too bad about your husband not thinking of you- if wife had a new flame I would probably never even get a "hi" I think she is missing me as a friend but that is all.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Oh, the other thing about that message she left that I find entertaining is the fact that she could have told me in person, she picks the kids up from me every Monday!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Hey, i have been reading your posts tonight. I have a question for you that I hope doesn't bring up hurt feelings for you. You had said that you share partial custody of your children. My I ask why or how you didn't get a 50:50 arrangemnt.
I have thought about taking that trip asap but I need to pay bills first! Planning on going within a few weeks.