rocked... if it did work for you, that is awesome! and I really don't know the stats on either way, and if there are any stats somewhere, but just seeing what have seen, depending how bad it is, it's usually much harder than just setting a boundary.
I also agree, that if she wants to continue fighting, and I hope you do Luv, that it will be hard. But you know what? getting D is going to be just as hard. So either way you have to go down a sucky road, left or right, but if you take the tools with you that you are learning here and what God is trying to teach you, you'll get thru it so much better and have a great chance of having a wonderful marriage in the end.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
