What boundaries would you set? What are the things that she is currently doing that you feel are disrespectful, or harmful, that you cannot continue to abide?
Just a hint on this:
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I have stopped giving her a kiss goodnight and goodbye and told her why do it if it didn't mean anything to her.
That's the wrong answer, and the wrong reason. Your reasons for doing things should be a combination of:
1) What is working?
2) What is The Right Thing to Do?"
3) What do YOU need, in order to heal/be happier/be healthier?
4) What things would represent a "180" for you? (be dramatically different from how you did things in the past)
Your answer is all about you looking for some REACTION out of her. That's "co-dependency" thinking, and to be honest, the rest of your post makes me think you do have co-dependency issues. I'm not sure if she even asked you why you stopped kissing her (did she?), but a better answer would have been:
A: "Considering where our relationship is at right now, I just have a lot of thinking to do. For right now, it just doesn't feel authentic (or "right") to me right now."
